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Originally Posted by Spunky
Call it a learning experience..nobody knows how much relationships actually cost in the end..Relationships are more meaningful than one night stands
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meaningful in what way? to who?
relationships for the most part are about nothing but emotional co-dependence... with girls using sex to get "love"... and guys using "love" to get sex and as a survival mechanism, we all pretend that everyone has nothing but pure, selfless and noble intentions in the relationship and the world is made of rainbows and cotton candy. in the meantime, the girl stops sucking cock and starts to work full time, trying to mold the guy into her idea of what he wanted him to be and into her idea of a father and from day one and he spends his time split between denial, compromising, being irritated about it or avoiding her.
as someone who spent many years with multiple girlfriends living in 5 different apartments that i rented and being free to spend time with any one of them, when I felt like it... and then being married 7 years to a totally beautiful model who i thought was "the one"... i fucked up. i was never happier during that period when i got who i wanted, when i wanted, how i wanted and NEVER had to deal with drama, arguments about money, about what car i want to buy next, about the future or about why i won't wear the fucking shirt her mother gave me.
get married if you want kids or if you are just too ugly or socially retarded to pull some ass occasionally....
otherwise, there is absolutely no reason to be married and no benefit to the guy in being married.
