Actually, I am the male half - I ran DyannaDoes.com with my wife up until about two years ago. There are many reasons why we no longer run that site, but it was not because we weren't making great money
I started in the business years ago, and learned how to do amateur sites from Kevin, the owner of Wifey's World.
And you are correct, I would not share the information and contacts. I'd simply want a small percentage of her sales in return for providing my "consulting" services. Something in the range of 10 to 20 percent, depending on how determined she is and how involved she would be.
And I'm not sure that she exists, either