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Originally posted by sherie
Hmm, and what is safer? Crossing the street can be harmful, going shopping can be harmful, driving a car can be harmful, who are we to tell someone that they cannot go to a nightclub because they are pregnant. I am not saying that it is something that I would do, but it does happen, why should we judge, there are pregnant women that are still talent/content that people push, is that not harmful?
It's not a matter of what I believe, I just don't think that we should judge her based on the fact that she was out at a night club.
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Sheri, I MUST get to sleep now.
But I will address some of the things you said:
1) Crossing the street, going to the mall, and driving a car CAN indeed be harmful. But these are things we NEED to do in most cases. Not the same as going to a nightclub where drunks can get into fights and knock you down, depending on where you live, there may be smokers and second hand smoke in the air; and shit like pple slipping you something in your drink or even like everyone is saying here... spraying pepper spray in the air. Totally unnecessary and uncalled for when you are with child.
2) I don't agree with pregnant women as content, but again, we may be talking NECESSITY there. They may need the money to support their coming child, who knows? So I won't judge those women. But any woman who thinks a nightclub PACKED with over 1000 people is SAFE is just fucking STUPID. So yes, I will judge that woman. She shouldn't have been there! Period. Once she got to the entrance and saw how packed it was, she should have turned around and left.
It's called lack of better judgement. And she paid the price. Sadly, so did her unborn child for her stupidity.
And that is worth my 4 cents.