My husband and I have different hours, and, I have always been way more horny then him. So, I "Usually" do not wake him, I have a little pink friend that vibrates nicely
Usually get some kinky fantasies going of a fuckfest between him, I, and a big tit babe.,,, Plus it helps me sleep better after a stressful day
I have always said "a good orgasm is a great stress reliever"