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Originally Posted by BoyAlley
I think you'd find that insecurities tend to subside with a relationship has a solid foundation of mutual respect and trust.
By reading the many responses to this thread, it seems very clear to me that the women involved with the various people posting here, had absolutely every reason under the sun to be untrusting and in turn insecure.
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Mutual respect isn't about cowtowing to ultimatums, and trust can't be forced out of someone through control. It's either there or it isn't, you can either trust the person or you can't. And there are two sides to trust... the other person being trustworthy, and you
being able to trust them.
Quite often someone is completely trustworthy but their partner still cannot seem to find a way to trust them. This is the insecurity I was referring to.
The question in THIS thread is... is the problem stemming from him being untrustworthy, or is it from her having insecurities? He's perfectly willing to have her accompany him so you decide.