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Originally Posted by CarlosTheGaucho
Well, I don't know what exactly is the buzz in your case.
Do whatever you feel is right, I am lucky enough I don't have any issues with the rest of the family that's my blood and that's still out there, so we are a family and a great friends and would stand for each other, I can confirm that now after we went through hell recently.
I doubt there are many cases like this, because usually there are serious issues within the family, noone can fuck you over just because they are family and if there are issues, let them face it. Crimes within the family and abuse or spoiling the kids is the worst thing out there, that's where real future problems start.
That's for a bit of philosophy talk at the board that behaves like a mental hospital community itself for the most of the time.
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No, no one in my family ever fucked me over or anything! I am just nervous about meeting them in general, just because of general nervousness I suppose, and also because perhaps they will think I wasn't ambitious enough in life. I have cousins that went to Ivy League schools and who are doctors, professionals, etc I never went to college as well, and if I say I do online advertising I'm afraid they'll be like wtf.
I think a lot of the family members are old too, like over 50 or whatever, and you know how it is dealing with old people. Nothing against really old people.
Plus I don't feel the NEED to meet them.I feel like I don't HAVE to. I don't see the point. I feel like when I was younger my family forced me to go to family functions and I dreaded it. I couldn't wait until I could move out and not have to deal with it anymore.