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Originally Posted by bausch
Also, this is not directed to anyone in particular but just in general, only for people who haven't responded yet. Do you have to be "forced to" in order to meet your extended family or would you do it out of your own free will?
Do you think it's a big deal to meet them or do you think they are just people and that it's good to make contacts etc?
Do you think you would be doing your parent a big favor by meeting your extended family or is it not a big deal since you think it's normal to meet your extended family?
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Well, I don't know what exactly is the buzz in your case.
Do whatever you feel is right, I am lucky enough I don't have any issues with the rest of the family that's my blood and that's still out there, so we are a family and a great friends and would stand for each other, I can confirm that now after we went through hell recently.
I doubt there are many cases like this, because usually there are serious issues within the family, noone can fuck you over just because they are family and if there are issues, let them face it. Crimes within the family and abuse or spoiling the kids is the worst thing out there, that's where real future problems start.
That's for a bit of philosophy talk at the board that behaves like a mental hospital community itself for the most of the time.