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Originally Posted by bausch
No, he didn't fly half across the world for that but he came to see me, like for a week and a half. But on one of those days he wants me to meet the extended family because they are having some kind of family function, but it will only be for that day for an hour or two I guess. He didn't fly here to see the family it was only to spend time with me. But I guess the family is always having gatherings and crap and one happens to be while he's here too.
I guess it would be weird if he goes but I don't since he's staying with me? And the whole family knows about me, they know he had a kid, they just never met me (once in 30 years), they just know I exist.
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what they think doesnt matter... if you feel good to meet them just go and meet them... if you dont, then dont go... but its always good to make new contacts... especially when its kind of a freely meeting, with open bars etc. that always loosens everyone up. Ive always felt good about family gatherings because like i said we're all kinda on the same level.. I think when i didnt have school or alot of friends i hang out with id definalty go... always in for suprsises, be open minded and just bullshit around with them, but i dont know if your fam is uptight or is kinda free thinking like my family is.. it all depends