Originally Posted by NikKay

Everyone is looking to get laid but it's not like they're out there specifically looking for a one night stand. It's usually girls that have little to offer other than their bodies that end up feeling like they've been played... because they give up their bodies too quickly and have nothing else to entice someone to stick around beyond that.

I am an attractive girl and I have never felt like I was being hit on as part of some numbers game. In fact, a lot of the guys I have met in a social setting are people I remain in touch with. Of course, I don't sleep with people I'm not dating and so, even if a guy starts talking to me as part of some "numbers game" he soon gets past that and decides he likes me enough to want to continue our conversation beyond the social situation we met in.

It's only possible to feel used if you let yourself be used. It's not the fault of the guy... and that's truth.