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Originally Posted by bausch
This is not true. First of all, I never even engage in conversation back. Second of all, I have never had a one night stand.
The only reason why I am bitter is because I have been reading sites like fastseduction.com (it's a very interesting site, btw) that show all the games men play and they have message boards where men give each other tips on how to "play women" etc It is the MEN that are calling it a game, not me, I am only reiterating what I have read...
Also, from reading books that teach men how to pick up girls, it is those books that are calling it a numbers game. PLUS I have read many times GUYS ON GFY calling it a "numbers game", so it's not something that is coming from my mind, it is something that is coming from guys' minds.
Flirting is not a game that I'm losing because I don't flirt. I chose to be alone.
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Now it's starting to come out.
So did you NEVER have an interest in men or boys? Because this is clearly NOT natural. I suspect some kind of sexual abuse here, whether physical, mental or emotional. Did a boy in school trick you into putting out and dumping you or something similar. Or maybe you were anti boys even at school. Any way it's not natural.
By reading certain sites you can find anything you like to support what ever claims you like. So stating you found a site where "men give each other tips on how to "play women" " It's finding a site where the MEN ON THAT SITE act, not a site that reflects men in general.
Flirting is a game you lose out on, even by not playing you're the loser.
Also when a guy comes over to a girl in a bar, shop or where ever he has nothing to go on but visual clues. If he's not coming over that's your problem, if he's coming over and leaving again your problem.
He does not know you, know if you're compatible, if he likes you, if he wants to get to like you. All he has to go on is visual and under that is the sexual attraction of we all want to mate with the fittest of the species. It's human NATURE, get a life and get out once in a while. Who knows 1 in 20 of the guys who come over might stay.