Hi Kisskatlyn and welcome back
( I know I don't know you maybe but hey you said you were gone for a bit)
Yes the webcam stuff is hotter and hotter, because of all the DSL and Broadband connectivity out in the "real" world now.
Unfortunately your thing doesn't sound right for us (or quite a few cam solutions out there), geared as the market is to a kind of non-passive, interactive voyeur audience out there...
You could give us a call, we're in -5 GMT time zone or Eastern Standard... and we could probably refer you to some people we know...
Anyhow it can't hurt
hit us up