did you put
http://www.xxxfeetxxx.com/xxxfeet/siteindex.html as the reciprocal link? if you put
www.xxxfeetxxx.com as the recip, then it'll check that page for the recip.
Also it checks for a pretty exact match for the link, I loosened the scan a bit so it doesn't have to be as exact (incase your using linkex or something) so try again and it should work np as long as you put in the correct recip URL
lemme know if the problem persists