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pink...the stereotype of fat girls fucking like banshees is one that is definitely rooted in fact.
It's sad, but true that most fat girls don't realize that they're desirable until later in life. Most of us don't have guys lining up to date us in high school. Funny/intelligent fat girls can be popular in high school, but not many of them(us) have boyfriends. It's just a fact. So what's stage 2?
Well, we become adults and find out that some guys DO like their girls with a little meat on their bones. Many of us (and notice that I'm not saying ALL) mistake that desire for love and we use sex as power to get what we've been missing....love.
We end up being wilder, crazier, a little more educated, more skilled because we start out by using sex as a tool. We do whatever it takes to keep the man because we NEED the love.
And yes, I realize that this happens to skinny girls too, but it's definitely more pronounced with fat chicks. We're programmed from day one to believe that we're not desirable. Programmed by movies, tv, our friends, our family, music, etc. It takes awhile to fight that programming.
Then stage 3....we finally realize that we ARE desirable. "fat girls are easy", yes for many it's true, but usually for a short duration of time. Then we figure it out and come out of the entire experience wiser, more confident and we leave that slutty period of our lives fully prepared for a mature relationship.
Notice a lot of the girls who say they're overweight talking about realizing that they are worth something...our skill is rooted in self esteem issues, desperation, confusion...but it usually is there.
That's all I'm saying...Not trying to make blanket statements, but sometimes stereotypes have a little truth to them. From experience, that one does.
Of course, there are surely a lot of fat chicks out there that are bad lays...lol The world isn't a place of absolutes.
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