Originally Posted by wtfent

I would love to be with her still but at the time we had some growing up to do, she is 23 I'm 26, getting used to the whole parenting thing at kind of a young age took a while and really drained our relationship. We both did and said some things that really broke our hearts. Now that I look back I was also a little selfish and really did not realize what a good thing I had. I looked too much at her bad side and not enough at the good things about her. A mans family is the most important thing he will ever have in his life just sucks that it took us getting divorced to really see how true that is. Anyways I can go on and on about this but I stop now before I bore anybody too much.