Originally Posted by Jim_Gunn

For crying out loud, you non-talent ladies, maybe you don't have to tell someone you just met at the gym or in your little small town that you work in the porn biz within a minute of meeting them or at all for that matter?

Make up a plausible story like you work in online marketing on the computer and think through the details of your answer in advance so you don't sound like you are hiding something if they press for specifics.

In my case, as a single male porn director living here in South Florida, I tell people that I don't really know well like my neighbors that I am a cameraman and assistant director who works in reality tv production. That explains my loose schedule, and also the fact that they might see me loading my car with camera equipment. If they ask what tv show, I say that I am doing a pilot for one of the Spanish channels following around some teenage girl named Esmerelda here in Miami who is trying to become Britney Spears. They'll never get to see it and if they were to ask I just say the show never got picked up and I am on to some other project.