Originally Posted by marcjacob

You clearly either want to be her boyfriend or you dont want to and are scared of it turning into that. Id guess the former.

Tell her that you can see you and her being more than just dating, and that youd like to comit to her as her boyfriend. Maybe put it into your own words so its not cheesy.

OK im gay, but that means that girls talk to me as if im a girly friend, and belive me, she will fuck you all night if you say something like this. Girls like guys who want to commit. So many straight guys are scared of that and girls HATE that from what they tell me.