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Old 09-28-2007, 02:48 AM  
Twisted Dave
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Originally Posted by AntiDrama View Post
she threatened suicide because we were arguing and i called her a couple of names

what would you do if your significant other threatened suicide during/after a verbal argument?

she is a angry young lady (23) (very much so - overly sensitive) and flips out when i resort to name calling (the name-calling is a bad habit i practice when we have verbal battles)

these kinds of arguments and things do not take place real often, but when they do... things get pretty bad - and things happen more than they should

i love her but at times i think we can both be too much for the other to handle... is there any middle ground here?

i think i need anger mgmt and she needs a counselor, but im not sure i want to be with this woman for the rest of my life

p.s. - i do have love and deep feelings for her, but i just do not know anymore...
Important lesson here

I was in EXACTLY the same place. I married because I was pressured into it with the same problems ...

Now I'm divorced. She can move on, and so can I. Well, i have done.

Do NOT continue this, if your arguments get that bad.
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