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The custody issue in the US is a pretty tough nut to crack...it is very slanted in the mothers favor, find an attorney that specializes in mens rights, they are out there....you could be mother Theresa and still the wife, girlfriend will get custody...I don't know about Canada.
I finally got the kids when my ex-wife got busted for coke, but that is about what it takes. Which is why I left.
In all seriousness, kids often feel responsible for their parents problems, and a considerable amount of work would need to be done in that area. Further, if you get into a custody battle (read: an attorney's dream come true)....you are gonna have to have some deep pockets...there are endless pschological exams, hearings, court filings, it goes on forever...and it sucks for the kids.
My motto would be:
"if you love something, set it free, then hunt it dowm and kill it"
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The object of war is not to die for your country but to make the other bastard die for his. -George Patton
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