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Since there is a child involved, I think it would be worth trying to work things out after you've cooled down...depending on her attitude, of course.
Has she cheated on past boyfriends? Is this something she regularly does when she's mad about something? Then it's time to move on. But if this is totally out of character for her...hmmm.
*If* she's truly sorry & this was a one time thing, it's possible to salvage the relationship. You'd have to make her work for it...prove that she can be trusted again. Breaking up with her temporarily might be the kick to the head she needs to never take you for granted again. Plus you'd have a "Get Out Of Jail Free" card should you ever get drunk & fuck some random chick.
But if things were falling apart already & you don't think it's something you could get over, get to work on getting custody of your daughter.
Quebec may be different, but in Alberta custody is determined by what would be least disruptive to the child. 9 times out of 10, the person who resides with the child when the custody forms are filed gets the child.
Switch the daycare. Move, if you can. Get a day job. Don't let the mom see your daughter until you go to court. Shitty for your daughter, yes. But it's almost impossible for dads to get custody unless the mom is a proven crackwhore. Cheating on you will not show that she's a bad mother - just a bad girlfriend. That will never be taken into consideration in Canada.
Good luck.
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