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As I've noted on this board before (and it probably doesn't need repeating, as I'm certain most intellignent folks realize this already -- but fuck it, I'll do it again).
What's so funny and 'revealing' about the homophobic posters is a basic Psych 101 understanding of the situation. Many shrinks attribute harsh reactions to gays (and the 'idea of gay sex') as a compensatory or definsive motion within the psyche, to shield the homophobe from their own homosex longings or curiousities.
Of course this can be shrugged off as erstwhile Freudian spinning -- although, I've gotta say, that -- having prefered GAYSEX to HETSEX for the last 25 years of my life (and being an observant human being) -- that the het men who react the most strongly to 'gay sex' (or effeminacy in general) are almost always dealing with 'issues' regarding their sexuality/masculinity. Not to say that they are closeted gays -- only that something in their development left them with a weak sense of their "maleness." To make up for the definciency they will attack anything that appears externally as a weak, poorly formed sort of masculinity; which then shores them, making them feel good about something that they essentially feel (secretly) bad about.
Whereas hetero men who don't have reactions are indiffernet to the idea of gay sex and the homo lifestyle. It just doesn't rattle or pique them, as there is nothing lose or cocked within their unconscious that troubles them about their own sexuality.
For myself, I don't hate heterosexual people and I don't have any opinion about HETSEX, other than enjoying watching het porn every now and then because some of the guys (Ron Jeremy withstanding) are hot and massively hung.
And yeah, ban the dickwad. Somewhere a white trash trailer park is missing their King -- and it's so sad that GFY found him.
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