use it for what its for.
its not gonna make you a billionaire because you read it.
take away from it motivation.
listening to it isn't going to make you a better person.
you have to do that on your own.
tools are only as valuable as their application to a task.
if you want to be positive you have to do that. no book can do that, but it is a tool.
take what helps you and toss the rest in the recycle bin of your brain.