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Originally posted by Voodoo
Actually, we could both be right. As you mentioned, it started back in the 70's. When it went online, it could have been misinterpreted and taken on a new meaning, and now has multiple definitions, depending on who you talk to.
I'm just wondering, if it has always meant "Big Beautiful Women", why do so many people think it means "Big Breasted Women"??
Just curious.
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This is EXACTLY what I was wondering......... maybe in the ORIGINAL term before the Internet Porn and such it was the BBW, meaning big beautiful women, but when the Internet came along and webmasters started doing porn, maybe it WAS Big Breasted Women........ this doesn't make anyone wrong really....... but I do distinctly remember someone telling me that it was Big Breasted Women.....
I went thru school one of the petite ones..... I never weighed more than 105 lbs at any given time. When I had my first child, I gained a good amount of weight........ so on and so forth thru 4 kids and two miscarriages... I managed to lose it all fairly quickly with the first ones...... but this last one isn't wanting to let go for shit so I am around 20-25 lbs overweight....... And the onl one with a problem with this is ME. My husband is adorable with it, most everyone I know is fine with it...... I have only had like maybe 1 or 2 people actually say something mean to me..... and they didn't matter. But I have issues with it......... so it kinda flips me out sometimes.
I don't judge people one way or another........ I take each person as an individual........ but I have seen some people be pretty cruel, to both heavy people as well as skinny as a rail people. There are people who are going to be an ass no matter what.
What DOES kill me is for one heavy person to point to another and declare "oh my god, look how fat they are" THAT Ones eats me alive.........
Sometimes people are heavy and they CANNOT help it. I have a step mother, she is not my step mother anymore, but I remember how very cruel we were to her, as thin people........ and I feel like shit about it now, but we were wicked to her. She was very heavy and we always told her if she didn't eat so much, she wouldn't be so fat...... not something I am proud of, but I was 9....... we found out many many years later that she had some sort of a problem with something and no matter what she did, she would never be a thin person, in fact she was only going to get bigger. I forget what it was called, but it was something in the way her body digests shit....... I still hate her but she is an example that some people just literally cannot help it.
I guess the point is here....... If you don't like a certain body type, whether it is thin or heavy... move on down the line til you find what you DO like and don't ridicule people because their boadies don't fit what you have in mind as attractive.
