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Originally posted by Carrie
These women feel that their husbands are lying to them (which they are), going behind their backs (which they are), and cheating on them in some sense - after all, why would the hubby need to go watch porn online when he could just come into the bedroom and have sex with the wife?
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Again, it doesn't make it "right" to lie and sneak, but these women do this shit to themselves. A man isn't going to stop feeling sexual urges. Of course he sneaks around and does it behind her back rather than deal with her shrieking at him. The point is, if the worst he's doing is looking at porn, he ISN'T cheating on her. If she can't see the difference between dirty pictures and movies (Which I bet he'd be willing to share with her if she would go along with it), then there is only so much he can do.
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Originally posted by Carrie
the husband, the person she trusts most
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Which is clearly not the case. There's no excuse, there's no argument. If she's snooping on his personal activities, she doesn't trust him. If she does it "because he looks at porn", it's just more proof that she doesn't trust him. She thinks he can't be trusted to differentiate between fantasy and reality; between his wife and an anonymous model.
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Originally posted by Carrie
Remember, women are STILL taught to this day to keep quiet, don't make a scene, bottle it up and consider yourself lucky that someone even found you attractive enough to marry you.
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Maybe in the Ozarks. I'm sure not bumping into these wilting flowers in my day-to-day life.
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Originally posted by Carrie
Hell, half of you won't even tell your family members that you're a pornographer. If it's so "okay" and should be so widely accepted that you can bust a gut laughing at the *real* emotional pain these women are going through, then why isn't it "okay" and accepted enough for you to tell your family?
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I can't speak for anyone else, but my entire family except perhaps my grandmother knows what I do. I'm a grown man, I do as I please. That argument doesn't really say anything about the situation of the people on that other BBS, anyway.
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