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Originally Posted by SilkyJohnson
Damn...I think what you need is just someone you can release this shit to, someone that will just listen to whatever it is that is bothering you. I wouldn't suggest going to a shrink, they charge way too much to say "And how does that make you feel?" I would find a female to talk to, big girls are best--they'll listen and may have some good input/advice. Guys are no bueno, just because we are not emotional to begin with and we don't want to hear about someone elses problems cause we know we've got our own to deal with. That and just in case you start crying again it's always better to do it around a female who will not make fun of you for doing so.  |
Yeah that sounds good but I think it would take years of friendship for me to build up enough trust with someone who I could let it out to. I think I'm too introverted. I asked about it being a gay trait because a gay friend of mine keeps talking about how it's great to cry with someone.