It sucks when I'm at a bar and some dude starts chatting with me, especially when he's not making an obvious attempt to flirt and is just making what seems to be polite conversation. I usually know what his ultimate motives are, but I don't like to sound cocky and automatically assume that's what his interest are. But, if I don't make it clear right away that I'm not interested (and have a boyfriend), then I feel like I'm leading him on. It's kind of a lose/lose situation for me, either way, I end up feeling like a jerk.
Any suggestions on a good way to blow em' off (no pun intended)???
Here's one guy I could never blow off though...
Oh yes, yes...and of course my awesome boyfriend
