Learn to control your PC muscle. When you are peeing, the muscle you use to stop the stream of urine is your pubocoxxygeal muscle, or pc muscle. By exercising that muscle you can gain more control over yourself and can even learn to have multiple orgasms without ejaculation. Try the stopping yourself from peeing thing to isolate that muscle, then start squeezing it randomly throughout the day.....
You can do this while masturbating as well to help teach you control.... masturbate to the edge of ejaculation, then clamp down on your pc muscle and gently squeeze the head of your penis to prevent ejaculation.. If you keep working at it pretty soon you'll be able to stop ejactulation simply by flexing your pc muscle.... But it doesn't neccessarily stop the orgasm, just the ejaculation. When you are having sex start to practice this... and if you'll notice when you do that squeeze, you will "twitch".. Trust me, do that while you're inside your wife.. it's FUN
