Originally Posted by Anna_Miller

You know, I'm disappointed with how conservative Dr Drew is. I've heard him say some strange things. Like if you start masturbating at a young age it means something was wrong with your home life. Yeah, whatever. Ok, sorry I got off topic.

My husband and I have been swinging for over 10 years. Even before we got married. We have had lots of 3somes and obviously it hasn't ruined our relationship. 3somes and swinging to us are fun adventures. We find people we like & play with them. They are playmates. My husband is my lifemate.

That being said. I don't think everyone is cut out for swinging. If you are insecure or a jealous type it probably won't work out for you. If explore swinging/3somes to fulfill something missing in your relationship, that is also bad. So, the you got drunk with a friend and all played around could go either way. lol

I have found that you have to communicate a lot about feelings you stir up so you know how each other feel and work so that you are both comfortable and having fun. But if you can be open and communicate and keep it as a full extra activity for both of you, then it can be LOTS of fun.