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Originally Posted by BlackCrayon
Good god this is the most STUPID reply I've ever read lately here i think. You should trust a person as soon as you "start" a "relationship" with someone? How can you possibly when you don't really even know them? People throw the word trust around so much i want to throw up. Then people wonder what happened when they get fucked around on because you were just blinded by her big tits and what she chose to let you see.
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I find that in relationships, these days especially, trust is a fragile thing. Here you have a situation where while you were dating and getting to know one another your prospective other was secretly still sleeping with their ex-other. One may conjur up images of some of those dates you had or that night you spent snuggling on the couch in the 2nd week and then him/her leaving to supposedly go home but instead they went for a booty call.
People do imagine all sorts of things, it's certainly not uncommon.
I also find that there are people who aren't looking for those little red flags that should be, and there are many who are so distrusting they are overly looking to find fault and causes for concern at every turn.
Being single and dating really is a chess match of sorts.