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Originally Posted by selena
Would I like it? Not particularly. But if the door has been left open for me to do the same, then I have no reason to bitch. Just dating means just dating to me. And that means both parties are free to do whatever or whoever. Once we move from 'just dating' to seeing each other exclusively, then it's a whole 'nother ballgame.
While I can understand this part of your post....
I also find it a bit unrealistic. By that train of thought, if you go out on one date with a person, does it mean you have locked in to them?
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Its just my opinion but i think a lot of the people who think its ok have been the ones to be fucking around while dating others. Of course going on a first date with someone is nothing but i guess it all depends on your definition of dating. If you are talking every day, hanging out several times a week, sleeping over, fucking, ect. I'd say you've gone from casual to something a bit more and if you just assume unless someone says its not ok, that its ok then it seems you don't have much respect for that person.