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Originally Posted by CDSmith
Can be true but not in all cases, but nowadays so too is it dumb to be having sex with just anybody.
I'm just wondering if there is anyone here who is of the opinion that it's not unreasonable for someone to actually wait until they meet someone they want to be in a relationship with before having sex. I would go so far as to say I know several people who would no more go having casual sex than they would swallow rat poison.
Some people really do prefer to wait until they're with someone they care about, and not in the way that one might care about an ex. I don't necessarily see that as a bad thing or a "dumb" thing either.
Nor do I think those saying they would just accept her regardless are wrong (or dumb). My motto has always been go with what works for you. Hard to argue with it when it works.
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This girl was having sex with someone she trusted enough to marry - seems like THE smartest sex she'll have - including having it with the new guy
Basic needs have to be met. Eat, sleep, sex. What better place to have casual sex than with someone you've already been with? It's like eating fried chicken, mashed potatoes and mac n cheese - pure comfort. By criticizing someone for this, you're shutting the barn door after the horse is out. She already did it. She wanted casual sex and found it with the most logical person she could find. Then she found the NEW person and got rid of the fuck buddy. Happens all the time. Looks like her biggest mistake was telling!!
