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Originally Posted by Peaches
And NOT having sex is just dumb 
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Can be true but not in all cases, but nowadays so too is it dumb to be having sex with just anybody.
I'm just wondering if there is anyone here who is of the opinion that it's not unreasonable for someone to actually wait until they meet someone they want to be in a relationship with before having sex. I would go so far as to say I know several people who would no more go having casual sex than they would swallow rat poison.
Some people really do prefer to wait until they're with someone they care about, and not in the way that one might care about an ex. I don't necessarily see that as a bad thing or a "dumb" thing either.
Nor do I think those saying they would just accept her regardless are wrong (or dumb). My motto has always been go with what works for you. Hard to argue with it when it works.