ill show you a dead simple way of doing it yourself that people will kick themselves for not using

and its all done in a windows media player file , a mix of wmp and flash.
Code:
<ASX version = "3.0">
<ABSTRACT>WWW.WCTIN.COM</ABSTRACT>
<TITLE>PLAYING ON WWW.WCTIN.COM FREE MEDIA PLAYER</TITLE>
<AUTHOR>SmokeyTheBear</AUTHOR>
<Banner href="http://banner.com/banner.gif">
<MoreInfo href = "http://www.wctin.com" />
<Abstract>Click Here</Abstract>
</Banner>
<entry>
<ref href="http://www.yourvideofile.com/video.wmv"/>
<DURATION value="03:33:10.00"/>
</entry>
<entry>
<ref href="http://www.your-flash-file.com/flash.swf"/>
<DURATION value="03:33:10.00"/>
</entry>
<COPYRIGHT>www.wctin.com</COPYRIGHT>
</asx>
example here
