if your both not getting sleep it doesn't make much sense to share the load.. so heres what you do ..
you each take a night and do it all yourself. get some earplugs and sleep in another room on your "night off" until your baby gets on a schedult that will let you sleep.
p.s. , if your wife is blonde , tell her she has to take all the days of the week ending in "Y" and you will take all the rest..
