Originally Posted by jennym

You are a beautiful girl. You come across as very sweet (usually). Today's thread did not put you in a good light. If you are going to take on the task of married life, have enough respect for yourself to make it for love and not money/convenience/business....whatever. I never said you lied. I said not to expect your "husband" to be honest if the marriage is not even based on love. You can't expect him to open his heart completely and discuss obviously deep wounds with you. Come on honey, you must see the fault in that reasoning. It was childish and hateful to make that thread. That kind of thing really isn't anyone's business. You did it because you were pissed, and that is just wrong. Divorce the man and move on. Shouldn't be too difficult with no love involved.