Originally Posted by Kevsh

This may sound cold, but to me the words "big" and "beautiful" don't belong together. If a woman is big and proud then I think it's safe to say she has no interest in losing weight. Fine, but if for no other reason than for your health...

There's a reason why USA is the most obese country in the world - because obesity is at least somewhat accepted. So where's the motivation to lose weight?

Just my .02!