Originally Posted by Scootermuze

I should have probably closed with that in my other post..

I remember all the advice I was given years ago while I was going through all the emotional stuff.. It's easy to say when on the oustide looking in, but not as easy to do when you're the one going through it..

I think the one thing that finally turned me around was a complete stranger sitting next to us at the bar where I was crying in my beer.. All he said was, "I'm gonna have to move or you're gonna have to realize that her personal life is no longer any of your damned business"

It caught me off guard, pissed me off, but he was right.. Made me think a whole different way and it got lots easier all of a sudden..

Was funny that with all the advice, it took some half drunk guy spitting out 1 little line that did it..