Originally Posted by pocketkangaroo

I don't feel it's a choice that you sit there and say "hmmmm, i think i'll choose men over women". Just as it's not really a choice that I have more sexual attraction to brunettes than blondes. Or some guys enjoy older women to younger ones. Of course I can choose a blonde over a brunette, but I have more sexual arousal to a brunette. I find it hard to believe that you could "choose" to be gay if you really wanted to.