I'm dating and it sucks!!! I have friends who are "serial daters" and those like me who are very picky and don't date that much. So...here's my dilemma....it involves 2 guys at the moment (don't you like how I said ...at the moment?)
Guy #1
Nice looking....taller than me (I'm 5'9"). We have been on a total of 3 dinner dates. He has shown up at a few of the events I have hosted and we did get to talk and hang out some but I'm a social butterfly at these events so I'm all over the place. He has a pretty good IT job. He hasn't been married and has no kids. He is extremely nice.....at times I think TOO nice. I do like him but he seems to go to bed rather early....even on the weekend nights and I am a night owl or maybe he's out partying with others and just not me....Hmmm
He seems to be very naive (if he were a sales rep I would think he was just playing "dumb blonde" kind of thing) but he's not ....he's an engineer. So, here's how naive he is.....
One night with my girl friends sitting around at an event I made the comment that smart women have C-Sections. He disagreed (at least he has his own opinions, right?) and I debated the subject. I tried explaining WHY some women want C-Sections and he didn't get it at all. I finally asked him if he had ever heard of "throw and extra stitch in it"....NOPE.....so I had to explain that to him and the whole "intactness" that stays when you have a C-Section to him
Hmmmmm.....let's keep in mind......at times I am naive but it is very hard to shock or offend me! Also, this guy hasn't even touched me, yet....not even a hug after 3 dates.....
Guy #2
Hot guy also taller than me....about 2-3 years older than me. Met him at Ghost Bar here in Dallas last weekend and it wasn't his "scene" and it was his first time there....this is a good sign to me. He was very much himself rather than the typical "30 Thousand Dollar Millionaires" of Dallas.
He is a football coach and kind of like an "all American guy". He has no kids but likes them and hasn't been married. Has a great sense of humor and very impressive manners. Calls to check and make sure I'm alright after my car accident....even today. He wants to date JUST me and see if anything develops rather than dating the whole world. We are both very busy people and that is why he likes this approach as do I. The physical attraction as well as sexual "desire" ...I guess that the best way to put it....is definitely there for both of us.
