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Originally Posted by bausch
I don't have a moral compass, I'm not a moral person at all. I barely even have a conscience when it comes to a lot of things. I could care less if someone wants to gangbang or fuck 1000 partners.
But I DO care when it comes to the person I'm with because I think past behaviour might be indicative or future behaviour. I want to do everything possible within my power to minimize the risk of being cheated on, even if that includes going by theories I have developed in my own head. For example I will rationalize "this person is less likely to cheat on me because of so and so...."
If someone constantly craves VARIETY in their sex partners and therefore had a lot of partners, I would say that person is more likely to cheat because they are always looking for something DIFFERENT. So why would they stay with one person, no matter how good that person is. There is always better out there... So why would they like me, if there's different and better people out there?
So THAT is why someone's past is important to me.
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every human being craves variety - self-imposed morality is what prevents us from acting on our urges - the only way to live honestly is in an open relationship - there is no cheating - there is no need to cheat - the whole cheating concept comes from the Christian morality system which is based around guilt. If you are not a conservative Christian, the whole idea of monogamy and being with one person for the rest of your life is ludicrous.
And personally I like a wild girl who has been promiscous in her past but I'm a freak like that
