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Originally Posted by Z
No, I don't have any issues at all with a woman who's had some sex. Nor do I hold any double standards in my current relationship or any I've had since I was in my very early twenties.
There are girls you fuck and girls you marry, but to me that implies more about the kind of person they are than the numbers of people they've slept with.
Implying any kind of morality judgment on the act of having sex or the numbers of times someone has had sex, who with or in what sexual acts they willingly and happily participated when you work in a business that exists and thrives because people want to have sex, fantasize about having sex and watch other people have sex is a double standard in and of itself. Considering the mountains of morality judgments people heap on the porn business, what we do and how we do it...it's sad to see you lash out at somebody else with your personal moral compass as if you think it should apply to anyone else.
I responded to that little questionaire because I had a feeling you were fishing for someone to point fingers at and vent your personal frustrations from disappointing relationships and/or partners. I'm sad to see I was right.
~Off to the forum~
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I don't have a moral compass, I'm not a moral person at all. I barely even have a conscience when it comes to a lot of things. I could care less if someone wants to gangbang or fuck 1000 partners.
But I DO care when it comes to the person I'm with because I think past behaviour might be indicative or future behaviour. I want to do everything possible within my power to minimize the risk of being cheated on, even if that includes going by theories I have developed in my own head. For example I will rationalize "this person is less likely to cheat on me because of so and so...."
If someone constantly craves VARIETY in their sex partners and therefore had a lot of partners, I would say that person is more likely to cheat because they are always looking for something DIFFERENT. So why would they stay with one person, no matter how good that person is. There is always better out there... So why would they like me, if there's different and better people out there?
So THAT is why someone's past is important to me.