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Originally Posted by Z
No, I don't have any issues at all with a woman who's had some sex. Nor do I hold any double standards in my current relationship or any I've had since I was in my very early twenties.
There are girls you fuck and girls you marry, but to me that implies more about the kind of person they are than the numbers of people they've slept with.
Implying any kind of morality judgment on the act of having sex or the numbers of times someone has had sex, who with or in what sexual acts they willingly and happily participated when you work in a business that exists and thrives because people want to have sex, fantasize about having sex and watch other people have sex is a double standard in and of itself. Considering the mountains of morality judgments people heap on the porn business, what we do and how we do it...it's sad to see you lash out at somebody else with your personal moral compass as if you think it should apply to anyone else.
I responded to that little questionaire because I had a feeling you were fishing for someone to point fingers at and vent your personal frustrations from disappointing relationships and/or partners. I'm sad to see I was right.
~Off to the forum~
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Personally I'm not really a moral person, I could care LESS if people want to have a lot of sex. I have no problem with that.
I ONLY have a problem with that in my PERSONAL LIFE because I'm jealous and I don't like to think of who my partner has been with because it makes me wonder if the person's previous partners were better than me, more attractive than me, etc etc
I also think soemone who had more partners is more likely to cheat because they already KNOW what's out there... If they had someone who was BETTER than me, why would they stay with me now? They already know what's OUT there and more likely to want that again....
But on the contrary I also think that someone who didn't have a lot of partners can also cheat because they DON'T know what's out there and perhaps are curious.
So either way you are going to get fucked anyways, so perhaps the best way is to just be alone. I am not joking either. I guess people who had lots of partners cheat and people who had few also cheat, so basically the best bet is to just be by yourself.
I sell porn only to make money. I could care less if other people screw around because it doesn't concern me. I only care about things that affect me directly.
Whatever my partner did in their past affects them as a person. For example if they were promiscuous it will make me think "What caused them to be that way, is it because they need attention?" "Is it because one person can't satisfy them?" "If they like so much variety why would they be happy with me? I'm boring?"
or "What do I have to do in order to outdo the people in their past?" etc etc
ad nauseum.