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Originally Posted by bausch
Also, Z... Would you mind if your girlfriend/wife had a past which included fucking male whores and having hundreds of partners?
If you DO mind, what makes you think she won't mind. There should be no double standards by now... It's 2007
Do you really think a lot of women wouldn't have a problem with a man who has banged hundreds of girls?
Cause I think a lot of guys DO mind if their girlfriends had a promiscous past.
There's this saying that there are two different types of girls, once you fuck and once you marry.
The same apply to guys. If you were a male slut, what makes you think YOU are marriage or long-term partner material?
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No, I don't have any issues at all with a woman who's had some sex. Nor do I hold any double standards in my current relationship or any I've had since I was in my very early twenties.
There are girls you fuck and girls you marry, but to me that implies more about the kind of person they are than the numbers of people they've slept with.
Implying any kind of morality judgment on the act of having sex or the numbers of times someone has had sex, who with or in what sexual acts they willingly and happily participated when you work in a business that exists and thrives because people want to have sex, fantasize about having sex and watch other people have sex is a double standard in and of itself. Considering the mountains of morality judgments people heap on the porn business, what we do and how we do it...it's sad to see you lash out at somebody else with your personal moral compass as if you think it should apply to anyone else.
I responded to that little questionaire because I had a feeling you were fishing for someone to point fingers at and vent your personal frustrations from disappointing relationships and/or partners. I'm sad to see I was right.
~Off to the forum~