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Well it's midnight and he's been in bed for 2 hours now... He's set up a matress in the floor of the downstairs family room "just in case" and swears that he's totally cool with it if I give him the *tap tap at any time. I feel kinda bad about it. I'm gonna give this a shot though and know that he won't be uncomfy on the couch like last night.
This has triggered a ton of discussions about the whole history and tradition of sleeping together etc etc and we're finding it's all about perspective like anything else. Generations ago, someone thought it was a good idea or whatever is all.
Why drive yourself to the brink of insanity when it's just as easy to snuggle and watch tv, have sex, read together, etc and then retreat to our own space when it's time to crash?
I liked the comment about making my room like a big pink princess retreat.. we actually started getting pretty creative with weird ideas on how to make it fun if we have to resort to that. We both fell for each other because we're different individuals with different tastes and unique qualities. We may be able to redecorate the "jam room" which is totally huge, downstairs, and on the opposite side of the house, into a really cool sleeping space for him and somewhere I'll love to sneak off to as often as I can...
We shall see.. thanks for any and all advice and input you guys have given today. It could save a life! That's a fact.. lol
Oh and btw I don't believe he has sleep apnea cuz he doesn't seem to stop breathing but I could be wrong...
Oh well.. here I go *sigh.. wish me luck.
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