Quote:
Originally Posted by Jim_Gunn
Because successful women who make a great living- which I assume you are- don't need nor do they generally want to pay for sex in effect by supporting some lazy, shiftless, dishonest significant other. That's only something alpha males with money do if they are cocksman who wants to bang young chippies even if it cost them some money and they have to put up with bullshit.
Ifyou are a woman making any kind of living and the fact that you are willing to rationalize away some horrible person shitting on you daily by stealing from you means there is something wrong with you, usually low self esteem.
The nest solition either way is dump the loser and find a real man (or woman) who treats you nicely.
|
Well, I'm not a woman, but usually whoever pays is the one that has the power. If a woman wants to pay then that's great for her. Perhaps she's just independent and doesn't need anything from a man. I think that is a commendable trait and something to be praised, not put down!
A lot of females I know would actually prefer to pay for the guy as long as the guy is FAITHFUL. If a woman wants a guy to stay faithful it's better for her NOT to go for an alpha man , because ALPHA MEN ARE MORE LIKELY TO CHEAT!!!!!!!!
A lot of women now don't WANT a man to pay. If men pay, they are more likely to feel entitled, and like you SAID, alpha males just want to bang tons of girls.
So a woman who wants a monogamous relationshiop has a better chance with a NON ALPHA MALE.
I would prefer to pay as long as the other person does not cheat. If someone is an alpha anything, male or female, they will be more likely to fuck around.
Perhaps an alpha woman likes to pay because she doesn't want to be cheated on!