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Originally Posted by rowan
Yes. If I purchased two of something so we could have one each, and my partner took mine without asking then it defeats the purpose of buying one for each. We're not talking about a chocolate bar, it is an object of value to you both in monetary and practical forms... you purchased that drive because you needed it, right? The person who took it completely disregarded that when they removed it from your possession.
bausch, you really need to get on top of this and move on. It sounds like you are both unusual people, but it's still painfully obvious that you are being seriously used by this person. I wish you'd see that.
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Yea you're right. It's not the first time the person stole from me. I didn't want to say it in the beginning of the thread because that would make people even more biased. I wanted people to judge the severity of the act based on one incident of stealing, not several.
Last time during a bad fight around a few months ago (which I started) this person withdrew $500 out of my checking account. They have my pin code cause I gave it to them because sometimes I will give them my my card go buy groceries for us, use it for gas etc... At first they denied it too but they ended up admitting it to me. I was mad of course but I got over it and forgot about it.
It's not like I work hard slaving away in a 9-5 job making low wages, I always have tons of checks rolling in like all the time. My significant other knows this and this and said "Ohhh it's only $500, you act like I stole tens of thousands from you, what's a few hundred dollars?" It kind of irks me that they say this even though they have no money at all, but whatevers....
They used part of that money to pay bills and the other half to buy some spy tool shit, some weird device that can detect hidden cameras...
I don't think this person is malicious or evil, I think they are just "childlike" and just don't know what's wrong or right. Plus in THEIR mind they are TRULY convinced someone is after them so therefore they felt they had no choice but to "borrow" my money to buy that spy device. To them it really was a matter of life and death.