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Originally Posted by Adult Lounge - Brad
I would say that the main problem here is now trust. How does he/she gain it back? They have gone behind your back and by the sounds of it stole from YOUR home. On top of that they lied to you about it. Perhaps there could have been redemption if they had just admitted it in the first place or given you a half baked story about how they thought they were both for them or something. But to me the bottom line is that they stole from you and then lied about it...for me it would be over and not only that I'd probably be finding a way to screw that person over because you were already helping them out in the first place.
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I don't know.... This person is resentful because a lot of times I don't want to help them out because I feel like they already took too much money from me, and when I say I don't owe them anything they'll start saying how everyone owes someone something. And then start saying off the wall stuff like "Who do you owe it to be in this country? Why are you here today?" lol They are trying to say that people died for this country or whatever in wars in the past or people fought for the land so I owe them something.... Someone helped me so I should help my significant other...
It sounds very bizarre but it's true. They tell me that everyone helps out everyone in some way so why should I not help someone I claim to be my life-long partner...
It's true the person took it from my house, it's at their house right now. They even helped me look throughout the house and we even discussed if it was a burglar, if it was a random attack or a neighbor, etc