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Originally Posted by Afrekete
OMG girl!! I've seen you post before and some of our thoughts and interests seem similar, so I just want to shake you! LOL
Personally, I love an ambitious guy. I wouldn't have it any other way. I would rather have someone who was out every day making their dreams happen versus sitting on the couch.
There are a lot of guys out there who are faithful AND successful. I honestly don't think you have to choose.
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Shake me ... shake me....
I am afraid of ambitious people.
I have a friend who is 29 and going back to school for accounting. She's making me really depressed. She said there's no point of her going to school because even if she is successful whoever she ends up with is still going to cheat on her (cause let's face it, most men cheat). So I told her ; "you DON'T go to school to keep a man, you go to school for yourself in order to better yourself,"and then she was like "ooh ooh but the guy will still cheat on me, why am I doing this to mysef, working so hard for nothing..."
It's just really depressing. And I noticed I'm the same way. I chose to be with people who have no ambition, no job etc because I feel that you have a better chance that way of having the other person not cheat. It's kind of twisted, but also smart in a way as Some Guy said... because women are more disposable to rich guys, they can always get a new one.