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Originally Posted by Furious_Female
1.) In general, I don't judge what anyone looks like. Men or women. It doesn't matter to me either way. If I am looking at other women or what they are wearing etc. I usually want to duplicate a certain look or simply admire them. I have absolutely no problem admitting when someone is attractive, but it really doesn't cross my mind. It's usually not the first thing I think when I see a person. Of course there's jealousy and competitiveness among women, that's just natural instinct and some is healthy even. But excessive jealously or envy is just ridiculous. Who cares really? As long as you are happy, it doesn't matter what anyone else has or looks like.
2.) No. I don't even like seeing men and women kiss lol. It can even be annoying when you know those 2 women aren't even lesbians.
3.) I have never fantasized about strangers. Not even celebs. It's never been my thing. Not sure why, but it never interested me.
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I'm not like excessively jealous, just competitive, I know I stare more when someone is attractive, for some reason I have to admit it's the first thing I notice about someone. If someone is really good looking it just strikes me more and it does tend to make me feel more insecure. I also notice if someone is good looking and is
driving a nice car for example, I like to compare and see if mine is better. Or if a woman is good looking but drive a hooptie than I feel better about myself cause my car is better, or if I know I make more money than them. I'll admit it, I'm very superficial and shallow. I can't help it.
I'm straight, I don't like women in that way but I can appreciate all sorts of porn, even gay porn (men), anything weird and unusual, even if I'm not into it personally, I don't mind watching it.
I don't see how any of that would change if I was in a relationship. I do have dirty thoughts all the time, I mean really graphic stuff, I'm very visual cause I've seen lots of porn so I really think that I think like a guy. That's not gonna stop if I'm with someone, I just don't look at men when I'm in grocery stores (as the topic starter suggested) cause shopping can be stressful for me, I don't have time to be checking anyone out, but I do have fantasies all the time.