Check out our sites, if you send traffic, you get credit if someone nabs the embed code, it carries your id. This now includes all our videos. Previous to this post it only included a few.
http://www.fuckherright.com/index.html
http://www.pinkandperfect.com/index.html
http://www.milfvixen.com/index.html
The cool thing is the actual flash player. I had them add a line that allows the "share" to occur on the actual flash player. If you embed Youtube, the share function pulls the surfer to the site, making the odds of him sharing the code a bit lower.
Seeing that embed code is not allowed on all boards, I screen-capped the player.
In the lower right hand, the flash action script forces a "select all" when clicked.
It is the little things.....I suppose.
If you have any questions, please hit me up.