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Well here's how I see it; I had a partner in the past sneaking in my email without finding anything that would comfirm his paranoid obsessions. We talked about it, worked it out and then it was fine. Later that partner cheated on me. We discussed, and I dumped him.
The moral would be; I can understand someone being insecure to some level, but that does not excuse his gesture. A guy who cant control his dick and is likely to bring me diseases, that I cannot deal with. So I'd say cheating is worse then sneaking in emails.
p.s. I also realize that the most paranoid guys/girls always seem to be the ones that are more likely to cheat since they project on their partner what they WOULD do and hide from them...
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